We don’t have a normal marriage. Many marriages that have dealt with the issues we have dealt with have already dissolved for less. One thing we never did was take it out on each other. We have had to overcome family interference, mental breakdowns, loss, and more. We don’t view each other as sub or dom. We both have fun together. We both are best friends. We enjoy our kinks openly together. We talk to each other and don’t hide anything… he probably has seen your dick pics in my DMs… We don’t have secrets.. we relish in the conversation.
Legally a marriage is contractual no matter what religion feeds you. Now having a partner that is your best friend makes things funner. My late mother in law used to say that what she knew about the both of us was, “where one of us was the other was not far behind”. We didn’t hurry into a sexual relationship. Instead we built a friendship from the start.
We did have extended family try to start cheating rumors about us but we both knew of what the other was doing. Communication is important in friendship. Andy is very a dominant type and very strong. He does enjoy me dominating at times and I enjoy when he dominates me. When you trust your partner, you can do what others dare. Our kink is not a reflection of us as weak or strong… just fun. Trust makes sex more interesting.
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