Female Expression and regulation

Skimmed an article about how the Europe area is banning strangulation porn due to domestic violence and women’s health. I am an American and will still have some strangulation in my clips of hubs and I, as well as enjoy it off camera. Just because the camera is not there doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist… you just don’t see it. I trust my husband and my judgement on what we choose to entertain ourselves with and will not accept over regulation due to those lacking in self regulation.

The difference between our porn and domestic violence is we use safe words. Even sexual relationships should all have safe words in place. Our strangulation videos I can still breathe and speak if necessary. Our safe words are yellow which means something is wrong and red which means complete stop. We will do on camera and off camera what we enjoy.

It is unfortunate some are not choosing to self regulate and some do not evolve. I will not weaken or change myself as a female due to other people’s desires and beliefs. To expect me to… how is that not a form of passive abuse and passive warfare? It is difficult to reason with the illiterate and ignorant. I no longer care to.