Personal Growth

No one will make you feel good about yourself. Honestly they will do everything in their power to make you feel worse has been my experience. Feeling good has been an inside job while taking accountability of my energy and boundaries has been a priority. Changing my life has been a place of personal responsibility. Not everyone liked it and many felt entitled to access and got pretty abusive when denied.

I had a therapist tell me a wounded person is like a wounded bird that predators can smell and salivate over. When the wounded heals and strengthens it no longer smells and looks weak becoming less favorable for the predator. Doesn’t mean it won’t be squared up with. Even livestock square up with the handler and humans are animals just the same. Religion would have me thinking that there is a separation between humans and 4 legged animals, while science demonstrates the link.

Everything is about perspective and intelligence. I have had to learn, I don’t need to be told what to think. I also don’t need to be around everyone.