Fact Check Gossip. Boss up don’t follow.

Before you entertain gossip, fact check. So much entitlement, being told no or ignoring a toxic person can fuel resentment. Some people do seek revenge for being ignored or told no.

I have had it happen. Got away from abuse to have abusers looking to instigate others to abuse since they were denied access. People hoped hurting me would make them accepted. Consider if I wasn’t accepted why would they be important, especially if I was closer? I just set boundaries.

I have helped people then they would cut me down & praise the trouble maker then be upset about the trouble maker then praise them again. Too much for me to try to understand so I just no longer participate.

I have had some into sneaky things cut me down or start drama to divert attention from their secrets.

I have been hated only due to jealousy I didn’t start. For example in sweat pants and sweatshirt working and somehow I am encouraged looks from other husbands… in sweats working.

People have issues in their old community then become your neighbors and start trouble and I was warned they would. I ignore them and that bothers them.

i have had some want to steal from me so they told lies about me. Some lies took me years to learn.

I have had some cheat on their spouse then hope to create an ideal situation for them by spreading rumors.

I have observed many people confidently start trouble where there was none to try to make me look crazy.

I have had some say I deserve my karma where I was played a fool while expecting pity for consequences of their own making.

I really don’t like being liked or care if I am. I just put my attention to family and art. I can’t be for everyone.