I can work with most animals… The Human Animal is Complicated

The problem with communities being proud of bullying or having jealousy among them is they set themselves up for difficulties and destruction. When communities are having issues and scapegoating someone in their community there is a barrier to access and if trouble comes into your neighborhood how do you work together to deal with it?

I have been in neighborhoods that have had to have a scapegoat. You couldn’t do any good in that place. They would hold meeting privately and you were not invited. Destroy fixtures and you would fix it and still be the problem. Case your home to ruin something while you were sleeping or gone then laugh by the fence about it. If you tried to help them they would make you a fool for doing it. I have helped to be gossiped badly after I was no longer needed.

My plan for one neighborhood was to build a big garden with neighbors to build a booth to sell produce and help the community since we owned the road together. Every night they dug up my plants then stood in the day by my fence to watch me cry while they laughed together. Constantly they destroyed something and we would fix it, especially when a neighboring community threatened a lawsuit. We decided to become real estate agents after I had a nervous breakdown to move and make money while I healed. Did sell a few houses who were facing bankruptcy. One was so grateful they even gave us a gift box. The other threw a pen at me because they had to fix what a friend destroyed they praised or face a loss.

I have had wife jealous of her husband for talking with me then expect me to talk to her husband then jealous again. I approach when the husband is not available to check to see if everything is alright after hearing gun shots and ignored. Have some of the neighbors say they are proud of their lies to us and cut down my mother in law. Had one neighbor out of no where instigate a fight with me in front of hubs. Our go to in difficult interaction is distance. Wait on clear probable cause or an answer. I am not a mental health professional and I come from a very difficult past that even my therapist couldn’t understand how I could still reason. I think it is my curiosity, close family and strong will. Hell I have faced a tornado when I was shaped like a billboard in a semi… I don’t submit easy. Now that was a hell of an amazing experience tho.
I have the willingness and skill to weigh things out but I am only human. People are a complex animal. Hard times will make you value good times. For some hard times are an addiction. A quiet life is an underrated blessing. I think I will go quieter. I have exhausted all efforts. Now it is time to focus on what I can do. No lack of work to get done. I will post again after the certification. Thank you for reading.