Spicy Shopping
One comment I see frequently is, I have to be secret due to my partner is against porn. I do understand the sensitivity, though I do not respond to it having had two different perspectives on the topic and it really is a personal issue. I have been married twice as I have said before and have affiliated myself with many religious beliefs. I don’t feel porn should pushed on everyone and respect is needed.
In my first marriage money was tight and communication was not present. Everyone else was a higher priority and really I should’ve left sooner in hindsight. It wasn’t that spicy topics were bad, because at that time I was a phone sex actress. It was more his desires were more one sided.
Fast forward to my present marriage where we are monogamous and explore our sexuality mutually together. We are best friends and enjoy communicating everything. We go to adult stores together and purchase online toys. There are some store we don’t feel comfortable going into. Not every place feels safe. Our favorite stores to shop at are like boutiques and very comfortable. The staff make questions feel safe and there are allot of fun stuff to enhance our sex time on and off camera.
Here are our favorite stores to shop at local locations as well as online:
https://www.castlemegastore.com/
The first time going to a local location did feel kind of weird at first because of social norms. Shopping around seeing it wasn’t a creepy weird place made it more comfortable. There is toys, lube, etc. and lingerie. The lingerie is not just for play time but all the time.
As far as the statement, my partner is against it…. I believe personally a partnership should be built on trust, communication and consent. I have no opinion whether a partnership is open or monogamous but consensual. For us we are monogamous and we will not have an opinion on those who are not monogamous or have an open relationship as long as it is consensual and safe. If a partner is against porn and one chooses to sneak, the trust isn’t there and it is a mute point to discuss. I won’t even discuss it even if it is your kink. I don’t like sneaky people and it is a complete turn off for me.
So if you are wanting to find some cute spicy stocking stuffers or gifts for the holidays, I highly suggest those 3 locations to shop locally.